First Date & 10 Tips for Avoiding First Dating Mistakes

For you men, when planning a date with a woman, whether it’s a prospective woman’s dream in our lives, or even just being yours through a marriage, there are many men who still make mistakes on their first date.
There are several questions about the first date, for example: “What is the right first date?” Where do you have to determine the best place for your first date? “” What plans do you have to arrange so that the first date goes smooth and perfect without mistakes that will ruin your first date? “” What to talk about on the first date? ”

At Info Men, I hope to help even more than you expect. Do you have questions about the first date? We will also ask to answer your question. “How many times have you planned a first date?” “How many times have you received a refusal for a first date?” The conclusion was: it turned out that there were quite a lot of problems that were quite annoying just for the first date. Some reasons for rejecting a first date from a woman include: he said he was tired, busy, there was another event, or “this is not the right time, just next time”. You have to really find out the reasons he put forward so that the refusal of your request for a first date can happen. In this case you must be really sensitive and learn to tolerate.
When he said “Yes”, what should you do? The following are some tips and reminders to help make your first date a success:


10 Tips on the First Date Way


1. Plan well for your first date. Determine when and where the first date will be made. Try to choose a location that is comfortable and conducive to having a conversation. Watching movies that are popular is not good for your first two dates, because there you will only be staring at the screen all night. Choosing a place where you can work together will be better than watching a movie. Even if you don’t have in common, you can at least laugh at each other when you have trouble doing activities that you really can’t understand.


2. The obligation of men to pay receipts. Even if he offers and insists on paying for your two meal bills.


3. Confidence. No need to be awkward anymore, because he already said “Yes”. That means, he wants to be somewhere with you for a first date.


4. Dress impressively. You don’t need to wear a suit and tie to a local pub, but it doesn’t hurt to wear perfume and wear a shirt that doesn’t look like a nightdress.


5. Timely. Don’t think that women also have to be on time. But be careful in drawing conclusions about the conditions that are more absolute in time apply to men. if he’s late, maybe it’s just because he doesn’t want to appear before you arrive at your first date.


6. Attentive.
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Dating When You’re Over 50 is a Whole New Adventure

When you’re dating in your twenties, it’s a fun voyage of discovery. You don’t really know what you’re doing, but it’s usually enjoyable nonetheless. However, when older, dating is in some ways more challenging than with the innocence of youth. There’s greater anxiety about it, you might be set in your ways by now and you don’t really know what to expect. You’re not alone!

Here are a few things to consider when you’re over 50 and looking to date someone in the same age bracket.

You’ve Got Life Smarts

You may or may not be street smart, but you’re certainly life smart at this stage in life. It’s not your first go around and this gives you an advantage over dating when you were much younger. When dating after 50, you are clearer about what you do and do not like in life, the things you want to do, and what’s most precious to you. As the younger ‘you,’ you were likely not sure about any of that and played a guessing game with life. Now you know better and can do better too.

 

You’ve Got More Baggage

Often, we never fully get over some of our past relationships. We bring this as emotional baggage into our next few liaisons. Most of the time, this doesn’t bode well for the development of any future relationship.

If you’ve not gotten over the pain of a previous love, then you should give yourself more time to heal emotionally. Otherwise, you run the risk of meeting a lovely potential partner and then overreacting to something or worse, blaming them for something that’s more to do with an action your ex-partner took than what anyone else did. That doesn’t do anyone any good and it’s quite unfair to the new significant person in your life.

 

You’ve Got A List of Expectations/Requirements

There are two ways to go with the expectations of another person. You can either have learned what you want from someone and the kind of person who suits you or has decided to just keep things open.

Some people over fifty end up with a laundry list of things their next partner must be. The list has grown over the years! They won’t accept anyone new unless they tick all the right boxes. On the flip side, some more realistic older daters narrow things down to their highest priorities, e.g. being a non-smoker or having kids already because you have two of your own, etc.

You must be careful about burdening someone new with being a person they’re not or are never going to be. There’s no perfect person or Mr./Ms. Right. There’s the person that’s right for you at that time in your life. You feel you can build a real bond with them over time and create a new, exciting life together. When meeting someone whom you ‘click’ with, the long list of requirements falls away.

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Dating Tips for Non-Thick Pockets

Find a place where you can volunteer. Look for soft moments where you can appreciate your neighbors and visit nursing homes or visit children in an orphanage.
So, no one tells you that marriage is a job? That dating doesn’t end when the prince marries us? Say dating generally includes watching movies and snacks. If something like this is done every week how much should be spent in a year?
Save on tickets to watch your movie and try the following suggestions. Dating someone you love can be memorable and cheap.

Night of togetherness
Once a month, or more, invite several other couples to play the game. Ask each pair to bring food and drinks. You can even invite all your children and caregivers. This method allows parents to have the opportunity to chat and have fun.


Progressive dinner
Each pair enters into the box. You walk to the city center or to the mall and buy appetizers at the first stop, then you enter at the next stop, buy snacks and end up with ice cream or at the pastry shop. The rule is that everyone must eat, and you cannot spend more than what is in the box. This is a game and very fun! We tried this and laughed at our ignorance.


Exchange pairs
This method needs to involve other partners, so if you don’t have friends, try looking for some. Take advantage of overnight in a month, or more, to take care of other spouse’s children. By exchanging caregivers can reduce your dating expenses: paying for a baby sitter is not cheap.


Date by doing service
Look for a place anywhere you can volunteer. Look for soft moments where you can appreciate your neighbors and visit nursing homes or visit children in an orphanage. This method can strengthen your love for them. This needs to be done by each pair.


To the museum
I know, museums for some people are very boring, but listen to my explanation. When you go together and feel something very different than you have ever experienced, this can be very enjoyable. Go round and round and see. I really enjoyed the classic car on display at the museum we visited.

Blend with nature
Climb, go on a picnic to the park, take a walk on the beach. That method can give you plenty of time to talk. Bring a notebook and write some fun questions that you can submit to each other. Take advantage of this time to truly understand each other.


Be as silly as possible
Skate in winter and look for a good hill. Go to the mini golf course. Look for parks and play swings. Play a water balloon war. One of the things I like most is shopping in the summer, as a surprise location I invited my husband to play a water gun and the fight began.


Dinner
Prepare candles, dinner for two, and some romantic music. Sit and eat in front of the fireplace or
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