Dating When You’re Over 50 is a Whole New Adventure

When you’re dating in your twenties, it’s a fun voyage of discovery. You don’t really know what you’re doing, but it’s usually enjoyable nonetheless. However, when older, dating is in some ways more challenging than with the innocence of youth. There’s greater anxiety about it, you might be set in your ways by now and you don’t really know what to expect. You’re not alone!

Here are a few things to consider when you’re over 50 and looking to date someone in the same age bracket.

You’ve Got Life Smarts

You may or may not be street smart, but you’re certainly life smart at this stage in life. It’s not your first go around and this gives you an advantage over dating when you were much younger. When dating after 50, you are clearer about what you do and do not like in life, the things you want to do, and what’s most precious to you. As the younger ‘you,’ you were likely not sure about any of that and played a guessing game with life. Now you know better and can do better too.


You’ve Got More Baggage

Often, we never fully get over some of our past relationships. We bring this as emotional baggage into our next few liaisons. Most of the time, this doesn’t bode well for the development of any future relationship.

If you’ve not gotten over the pain of a previous love, then you should give yourself more time to heal emotionally. Otherwise, you run the risk of meeting a lovely potential partner and then overreacting to something or worse, blaming them for something that’s more to do with an action your ex-partner took than what anyone else did. That doesn’t do anyone any good and it’s quite unfair to the new significant person in your life.


You’ve Got A List of Expectations/Requirements

There are two ways to go with the expectations of another person. You can either have learned what you want from someone and the kind of person who suits you or has decided to just keep things open.

Some people over fifty end up with a laundry list of things their next partner must be. The list has grown over the years! They won’t accept anyone new unless they tick all the right boxes. On the flip side, some more realistic older daters narrow things down to their highest priorities, e.g. being a non-smoker or having kids already because you have two of your own, etc.

You must be careful about burdening someone new with being a person they’re not or are never going to be. There’s no perfect person or Mr./Ms. Right. There’s the person that’s right for you at that time in your life. You feel you can build a real bond with them over time and create a new, exciting life together. When meeting someone whom you ‘click’ with, the long list of requirements falls away.

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Make her fall in love with you again – Romantic tips to try on your girlfriend

Once you’re in a long term relationship, after few years of staying together, you might notice that your partner doesn’t give that same romantic glance at you that she gave few years back. Well, your hairline might be receding or you might have gained few pounds but you still have that in you. Then why does she seem to be less interested in you and more interested in watching Netflix?

Well, you needn’t worry as you still have the power and ability to shift her focus back on you by being the hot hunk that you used to be when you swept her off her feet. So, what are the romantic steps that you can take in order to get her fall for you again? Here are few points to take into account.

  • Groom yourself to become a better and smart person

Do you remember the time when you used to brag about not taking a shower for 3 days? Well, if answered yes, then this is the time to stop such things. Showering is definitely good and your girlfriend will always appreciate it when you do it regularly. Make sure your nails and hair are neat and trimmed. Brush your teeth properly to whiten them, moisturize your skin and keep mints at the right place.


  • Try and shed those pounds

Did you gain pounds after your wedding? Once you start working out and doing exercises, you will find your flab melting down and you’ll then find your partner showering you with praises as she will not get to touch all your body parts which are newly toned. As you begin to notice the difference in stamina and the way in which your clothes fit to your body, you will find her get interested towards your new look.


  • Get yourself some new clothes

Although you may feel that it’s great that your football jersey still fits you but don’t you think it’s high time that you get them off your wardrobe and buy something new? No, we’re not asking you to become a male model but you can definitely change the staples and freshen up your wardrobe. How about a crispy white shirt, a pair of well-fitted jeans, a suit, a pair of khakis and a new pair of shoes?

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How to Love without Breaking the Bank

It’s difficult to stay in a relationship without breaking the bank, but it’s possible. Dealing with money matters in a relationship isn’t easy. You need to figure out who settles what bills—and that’s the tricky part—more so if one person makes or earns a lot more cash than the other. Because you have to keep things going, you have to find a solution that works for the two of you and discuss arising issues like rent increases or any extra bills.

However, one thing you two should know when trying to find this balance is no single remedy works for all couples. The reason is simple; situations are never same across the board. So if you’re under pressure to find a way to handle finances in your relationship, here are a few tips;

Be upfront about your financial status

If your relationship is built on honesty, then there’s no harm disclosing to your partner what you do or how much you earn? This way, your partner learns what you are capable of; and know when they are asking for more than you can afford.

Share costs depending on your earnings

If both of you make money, then cost-sharing is a good idea. If he pays for a date this time, make sure next time you sort the bills when you go out.  Of course, the one that earns more gets to sort the huger bills; and the vise-versa is true.

Don’t let the man pay for everything

The idea that the man should handle all bills is quite misleading. Stand for yourself and you two even if he is always willing to do or pay everything for you. This way, you help him save and build his confidence in you knowing you can always be relied on when times are tough.

Learn (and train your partner) to spend within your means

Sometimes you have to break the bank just because you don’t want to annoy or let down your partner. But the truth is; you can’t live like a superstar on a bartender’s salary! And if you tried, you’d be dead broke in a day or two. So you better accept who you are and teach your partner to live with what you can afford.


Managing funds in a relationship is only as easy as the two of make it. If you don’t know how to go about it, then you can seek financial advice from experts like EMB. We also provide adult merchant accounts to adult service providers to ensure your relationship needs are catered for.

Author Bio: Electronic payments expert Blair Thomas co-founded eMerchantBroker, America’s leading adult merchant account provider serving both traditional and high-risk merchants. His passions include producing music, and traveling to far off exotic places. 

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Payment Method Eroiy for Adult Entertainment Industry

Eroiy, a blockchain technology startup, has recently announced its pre-ICO (Initial Coin Offering) crowdsale campaign. The company is going to start its ICO campaign on March 1, 2018. Eroiy aims to play a game-changing role in the global adult entertainment market. This article will tell you about this new payment method and how you can easily get approved for adult merchant processing.

Eroiy: New Payment Method in the Adult Industry

Eroiy is a blockchain-based incognito payment method. It’s developed for the adult entertainment sector, which currently accounts for nearly $100 billion. This method is going to revolutionize the way people make payments in the adult entertainment industry.

This platform comes with an extremely useful feature. Particularly, it enables users to keep their anonymity while processing transactions and eliminates financial middlemen and the fees associated with them.

Adult businesses are considered high risk. So, to get approved for adult merchant processing as easily as possible, look for a reliable and secure payment processor that specializes in the high risk industry. With an expert merchant processing company, you can get the most affordable payment processing rates and the best services tailored to your specific business needs.

The Benefits of Eroiy for Adult Merchant Processing

According to the NEM (New Economy Movement) blockchain protocol, Eroiy is safe payment method that reduces costs, facilitates payment transactions, and enable users to execute smart contracts.

The ecosystem is comprised of the EroiyCoin, the Eroiy eWallet, the Eroiy-Xchange, and an Eroiy Crypto Debit Card. As the company states, the Eroiy eWallet is a unique solution that guarantees convenient, anonymous, and cost-efficient payments regarding online content and merchandise.

This business ecosystem aims to meet a wide range of customer requirements in the industry. This refers to how it’s possible to better protect personal data and anonymity. Also, the system is going to address issues concerning financial fraud protection, low transaction costs, as well as the convenience of one-click payment.

Eroiy will also make everything easier for merchants and service providers. The system is going to do this through low-cost transactions and a limitation on the potential chargebacks. Moreover, Eroiy will provide protection against data piracy and financial fraud, as well as complete independence from credit card companies.

Author Bio: Electronic payments expert, Blair Thomas, co-founded eMerchantBroker. His passions include producing music, and traveling to far off exotic places. eMerchantBroker is America’s No. 1 adult merchant processing company, serving both traditional and high-risk merchants.Read More

Rhapsody of Realities Online Prayer Conference by Pastor Chris Oyakhilome

Rhapsody Online Prayer Event

The 2017 Rhapsody Online Prayer Conference is expected to be the largest online prayer gathering in the history of the world. It is one of the most widespread international events. It is expected to start in the coming week. The prayer sessions will last for two days from 3rd to 4th November 2017. The starting time is 6 p, (GMT +1).

Everybody, who receives the message, is expected to tune in to the online channel and fellowship with other believers. The prayer sessions will be a 24-hour undertaking that will involve prayer reading, confessions and testimonies. Believers will read the Rhapsody of Realities as a community. Pastor Chris Oyakhilome`s sacred book is expected to change the lives of many. The daily devotional will accomplish the objective by bringing non-believers closer to Jesus.

People who have read Rhapsody of Realities have testified to receiving multiple blessings and graces. Countless first-time readers have also provided various testimonies how the daily devotional has changed their lives. Many have been elevated to a heavenly status. All of these believers attribute the blessings to God`s manifestation through Pastor Chris.

A believer from Canada testified how reading the daily devotional had transformed her family. She experienced divine favors because of trusting in the message of God, presented by the Rhapsody of Realities. Another woman from Nigeria also testified to the manifestation of God. Her dedication to the book`s message enabled her to receive financial blessing and spiritual healing. She was cured of fibroids and became successful in her businesses.

The few testimonies are examples of God`s power manifesting to believers through his servant, Pastor Chris Oyakhilome. The minister is inspired by the Holy Spirit to write inspirational messages and prayers in the Rhapsody of Reality. This is why Christ Embassy members consider the book as an important divine material that must be utilized, by all members and non-believers, throughout the world.

Rhapsody global online prayer will be so important because it

will be covering the daily devotion, in depth. The prayer sessions will reach millions of people because they are internet-based. The event is not biased based on the region or location of participants. Pastor Chris encourages everyone, throughout the world, to participate. Time zones will not be a constraint since the event will run for 24 hours a day.

Useful Tips Regarding the Use of Rhapsody of Reality

The journey to Jesus Christ Salvation is not easy. Rhapsody of Reality provides a guide for new believers to start their journey. They must, however, observe crucial tips to understand and effectively use the daily devotion.

  1. Determine the best time to read the book. Proper time allocation will enable readers to read the book at their convenience. Believers should settle when reading the book to understand the message better. Morning hours are preferable because the mind is fresh.
  1. Make a schedule to complete reading the book and the Bible. Rhapsody of Reality is read together with the Bible. Believers should
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